Intelligent Love: Me to WE Journey

An International Matchmaker and Relationship Mentor, grounded in science, practical wisdom and intuition that comes from a fascinating lifetime of experiences and working directly with individuals for over eighteen years, Joy Nordenstrom offers ways to be your best in partnership and to co-create thriving relationships.

Basics include:

• Identify the unique relationship lens you use to perceive what a relationship should look like and what matters most as you uncover your top ten relationship patterns and beyond, including your core chemistry, love languages, learning styles, various forms of communication patterns, among others

• Discover the story these top ten relationship patterns tell about you and how the way in which they intersect creates your personalized Relationship Blueprint as a Partner

• Gain an understanding of how to create a solid partnership with a shared vision and mutual agreements from the first stages of commitment, along with how to use this knowledge as a guideline for future communication and proactive resolution of challenges

• Cultivate a toolbox of questions and scenarios designed to quickly learn as much as you can about a potential new partner who is vying to become your forever love

• See a top-down look at how your patterns come together to give you your individual perspective on how to be as a partner and the patterns you should be carefully looking for in your new potential partner so you can choose a partner with whom your two sets of patterns entwine with ease as the puzzle pieces come together to create your WE

• Create a “how to guide” to work with one another’s strengths and potential weaknesses with dignity and grace as you have a better understanding of how best to approach one another with a “soft-start-up” when discussing difficult topics

• Discover where some of your unconscious patterns might be controlling you and how to work with newly developed tools both individually and with your partner to make healthy shifts

What you will receive on this journey:

• 13 one-on-one, 90-minute sessions custom tailored to schooling you on your top relationship patterns, including the chemistry, biology and neuroscience of why you are unique and to show there is no one-size-fits-all model when it comes to your personal Relationship Blueprint

• Exercises that incorporate scientific-based protocol designed to open your mind to possibilities, become more curious and guide you to establish new healthy habits as a partner

• A way to expand those exercises based in neuroscience which initially will help form positive habits to do while single and convert them into practices you can incorporate with your new partner to strengthen the core foundation of your relationship from the very beginning

• Resources which will allow you to do a deeper dive into each individual pattern, if you’d like to continue to learn and grow more

• Flirting 101 and Beyond: Lessons on how to be your most attractive and authentically flirtatious self, as you are meeting new potential matches

• Your Lens’ Analysis (a.k.a. facial reading assessment of those you’re attracted to on a chemistry level) – using three different facial reading modalities - to decipher on a physical level why you are drawn to one set of characteristics in a potential match you find attractive and would want to date verse someone who is close but not quite someone who turns you on chemistry-wise

• Identifying and Clearing Your Self-Limiting Beliefs and Your Evolved I Am Meditations: Special sessions designed to clear your underlying self-limiting beliefs and evolve into who you want to evolve into as you grow from past hurt and trauma into your best self as a partner. This custom crafted work includes three recordings created with imagery you see while we walk through a landscape of clearing and bringing in your evolved self. You’ll then use the grounding exercises, guided visualizations and meditations for eliminating those beliefs that are no longer serving your greater purpose

• Final Relationship Pattern Assessment Session – In a private session with Joy, you’ll receive a 90-minute one-on-one assessment where all your work throughout the course comes together. Joy paints the picture told by the overarching umbrella of your relationship patterns then dives deep into which patterns are just core to who you are as a partner – knowing these will lead you to understand why you do what you do and how to not be blindly piloted by those patterns. You’ll be aware of how to instead work with them to find someone who fits well with your core patterns. Next, Joy will address why gaining an understanding of which of your patterns when placed next to another pattern or set of patterns may be perceived as an “oil and water” combination that may inadvertently confuse a new partner and create a micro-tear in your budding relationships’ foundation.

Lastly, she’ll highlight which patterns are your weak links and how best to turn those around as your ultimate advantage as you develop strategies and tools to use in advance of these unconscious and subconscious imprints rearing their not so stellar heads in your new relationship. You will come to the table being able to circumvent potential assumptions potentially being made about who you are; perceptions that would be considered less than advantageous and which may even give cause for someone to terminate your relationship prematurely. You’ll now be able to share in advance with a new partner who you are evolving into as a partner and be able to gift your new partner with a level of empathy to understand why you may act in a manner that’s less than your best. By sharing with them simple pattern interrupts designed to guide you back to your most grounded and secure self, you’ll be working as a team to improve who you are able to become as a WE.

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